When talking with guys that maybe haven’t embraced game or believe in it, or maybe are just hearing if from the first time, I still can’t understand why they don’t listen, and start using game to help them in their lives. Why they still want to believe in fantasy and destroy themselves working, agonizing over women, questioning why women do or do not like them, working tons of hours of overtime to pay for cars and fancy apartments and clothes – spray tanning themselves, etc – when they can just learn game and be able to sit back and relax as poon comes to them for once with minimal effort and stress. I figured most guys were like me, and would rather have girls be as stress free as possible. I’m not sure. Although some of what I’m about to say constitute some sort of game, this is more of a question of actual applied game vs. only using your status, be that status of a famous singer/actor, or an unemployed artist living for scraps and bouncing from cheap tenement to the couches of umpteen friends.
Would you rather?
Learn Game or spend $80,000+ on a sports car, to get women?
Learn game or spend hundreds of
dollars a month on trendy clothes?
Learn game or take steroids and
work out 5-6 times a week?
Learn game or take out a mortgage on a house/pad you can’t afford?
Learn game or buy a girl drinks?
Learn game or buy girls dinner without even knowing if she’ll put out?
Learn game or try desperately to get your own reality TV show?
Learn game or learn to master the guitar?
Learn game or go back to college and join a lacrosse team?
Learn game or spend hours and days and nights slaving away at a job to get a promotion?
Learn game or have a bunch of friends that are girls that don’t want to sleep with you?
Learn game or sell drugs and/or be a pimp?
Learn game or hope for a trust fund?
Learn game or pretend you like reality tv?
Learn game or constantly trying to keep tabs on your girl when she’s not around you?
Learn game or go on vacations you
don’t really want to go on?
Learn game or be guilted into missing
the super bowl, or worse watching it with your girl?
Learn game or by a girl expensive jewelry?
Learn game or sit through romantic
comedies and pretend to like them?
Learn game or celebrate useless
days like valentine’s day and anniversaries?
Learn game or buy a dog so you can get girls to talk to you?
Learn game or buy a motorcycle in order to look bad ass?
Learn game or get tribal tattoos?
Learn game or wear Ed Hardy T-shirts?
Learn game or wear white running shoes with designer jeans, total cost: 600$?
Learn game or go to Vegas with your girlfriend/wife instead of your guy
friends?
Learn game or be miserable?
Just a few little tidbits on why it’s always better to just learn game. Again, obviously some of the alternatives I gave above is a type of game, i.e. wealthy game, or dressing nice, getting a motorcycle or learning the guitar, all the stuff above I’m not saying there is anything wrong with it, but when faced with the option of learning game or having to do anything else, game is the best option. Enjoy life, learn game and stop worrying about girls.
March on soldiers
Amen.
You forgot one, learn game while accomplishing and having all that. Minus the Ed Hardy and tribal tattoos, im to fly for that.
I’ve got a few friends that so blatantly and openly refuse to believe game exists or can be learned that it drives me nuts to still call them my friends.
A buddy of mine has been seeing this beast for years (since we were in college together).He’s a decent looking guy and got engaged to her a few months back. She’s abusive, financially irresponsible, and a serious liability to him. Did I mention he’s been faithful AND travels half way across the country to maintain this relationship?
Well, I finally convinced him to start looking elsewhere. He finally cheated on her and has been seeing a cuter girl (another long story) but is too much of a pussy to break off the engagement and get back the ring. The new one he’s only been seeing for a few weeks and she’s already talking about love, marriage, and kids. It’s sickening to watch, knowing what he could be capable of had he embraced game when I tried to open his eyes. Oh well, live and learn.
Amazing isn’t it? With just a little bit of game their lives would change immensely.
You could live in a Chateau and drive a Rolls Royce but if you don’t have game (i.e. understand women’s psychology and know how to play her) all you’d get is a gold digger that will play yours until divorce rape in court.
There is no alternative to learning game.
I would have to disagree. The fact that you need game means you are living in a failded society. This is a post that was posted on rooshv.com that explains why dealing with women today is such a losing battle. And no the main reason is not beta or afc guys. The main reason is because of guys who substitute standards, discipline, and common sense for “game”.
“Women act horribly, but we do nothing to discourage it and more likely contribute to it.
More than just puffing up the ego of land whales, by pumping and dumping even girls that are good to us, we give them no incentive to be good girls. If they’re going to get used anyway, why fight it? If they don’t put out on the first date and they know the guy will just get it somewhere else, where’s their incentive to play hard to get? If they act feminine and sweet, cook and clean, dote and serve, and get tossed out with the trash regardless, why bother? Why not just go out and party and get praised for it instead?
Yes, they could and should take a harder look at the nice betas, but those nice betas are some of the sissiest, softest American men ever to exist. They aren’t your Grandfather’s beta male provider. I think Roissy has done a pretty exhaustive study into how much women are biologically wired to be turned off by that shit. They don’t need hyper masculine drug lord alpha males, but they also don’t get moist for WoW playing spineless do-nothing wet sacks of feelings and nerves.
We always talk about how women are like children and can’t help but follow their little hamster heart. So why is it then that we ascribe so much premeditated and coordinated effort and intent in their malice and in the poor behavior they display? They’re just reacting to their world, like children would. Their current choices are alpha males they know will treat them like shit and beta males made of pudding that can’t conjure up a single drop of wet excitement for them. Well of course they pick the shiny one. Just like they pick ice cream over spinach, every time. They can’t help it, and they’ve always been like this, even back in the “glory days” 60 years ago. Their world just had healthier choices for them back then, both in their diets and in their relationships with men. We give them way too much credit when we blame the young women of today for the way they act as if they had total control over all their wants and desires and just decided out of spite to be the biggest, fattest cunts imaginable. Aren’t we always saying that women are designed to be told what to do?
So who’s to blame if not this make-believe all-rational, ill-willing female mind? Feminism, et al. Well at least originally. But what about now? Might there be other forces in play?
Roosh goes to the last places on Earth to find good wholesome women and uses them like disposable razors, then encourages a whole pack of men just like him to do the same. What impact do you think that’s going to have in 10 years? We’ve seen how frail and fragile traditional cultures are to the onslaught of globalism, what makes you think EE, SE Asia, and Latin America will somehow not be affected at all by us going over there and continuing to wage our war of hedonism?
We can’t act like dancing on the sick, festering body of a broken society is doing it any good. We didn’t make it sick to start with, but we also can’t say we aren’t part of the disease. And we’re contagious.
Roosh made a post about male rationalization — I submit the story the Manosphere tells itself about how treating women like used condoms doesn’t have anything to do with how women are acting is one of the biggest rationalizations of all.
It would be one thing if we were actually taking a stand and turning down pussy that didn’t uphold to a set of standards. But we’re not doing that. We’re messaging, approaching, validating, and fucking those terrible acting sluts anyway, while also hitting and quitting any good women that happen along our path.
I’m not saying we should or should not be doing this, but since we like to pick apart the female hamster in gory detail, let’s at least have the rational high ground and realize when our own hamster is spinning.”
I don’t think many men over all are or would be hitting and quitting proper quality women, the point of game is to acquire and hold on to one, if that’s what you choose. Sure some players might, especially in their youth, but if you take all men, the vast majority would not and do not. The numbers of quality women are probably so low that quantifying it would be a lesson in futility.
You also let women off the hook too easy. You paint them out to see them landing prince charming because they get pumped and dumped and jaded – that simply isn’t the case most women are delusional in our modern world and think they can slut it up and still think she can land the top stud in the market even as she’s well past the wall – sex in the city syndrome.
your conclusions are not accurate.
Puahate – good points.
show us the game then
I wonder if we live in different worlds. Perhaps the problem is with different aims. Sports car, work out? Perhaps, if you want that model looking women in the club, but I find them disgustingly superficial. But if you are happy marrying an everyday looking woman who never goes to clubs, wore make-up or got a hairdo but will be an awesome wife and mom of your kids, this all is unnecessary. “Put out?” Do you mean no strings attached sex? What is the point? The point in life is to have an awesome family I think, and to gain social status together, not to get pointless sex. Now if you try that with a hottie, you will get treated like a beta chump, used and thrown away. So you don’t do it with a hottie. You do it a simple, honest, everyday woman.