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Seanzy asks:

What are your generals guidelines to make women more sexual with you? Like “pornstars” like you said. I am having sex with women, but they don’t seem to have that animal attraction I crave. Also, if you have sex with a woman for the first or second time, and she hasn’t really really enjoyed the sex yet, then are they much less likely to sleep with you again?

I had to think about this one for awhile, general guidelines to make a woman more sexual, or how to make her a porn star in bed? But here are my general guidelines if I can try and simplify it:

  1. Always understand that girls want to be fucked like they’re a slut. Every girl, be it good girl or actual slut, likes being safely treated like a slut in the bedroom. Why? They like sex. Good girls just don’t flaunt it around like sluts do. But they all want to be sluts in some form or another. If you can bring out her inner slut, she’ll actually ask you to cum on her tits. 
  2. Make it clear and make it bold. Be more bold than you think you can be. Don’t be dancing around the issue of taking her home to fuck her, girls like the direct approach just as much as guys, if she wants to fuck you. If you spend time talking when you could be fucking, you risk messing up.
  3. Sext the shit out of her. Texting is a powerful tool. Don’t go on rules of when to text or not to text. It’s what you text. You can text a girl all day that you just met, if you know what to do. If you know a girl is attracted to you, or think she is, or you are setting up a date, start by telling her to wear a skirt and heels. You will get either coy, or an agreement, but both situations she will show up in heels. After that you can sext her during the day to warm her up, start off with how if she was here you’d bend her over your desk and ravage her body. Do not be afraid of her response. If she protests or laughs, plow on, she’ll be getting wet, the more you can sext in hot passionate language the more she’ll be reading and telling you how wet she is. Thus in your date, sex is already at a feverish pitch.
  4. She is your prey. Look at her as such. Sexual prey. Look at her like you want to fuck her brains out. She will pick up on it. Do not overdo it. One thing i think blows guys out mostly is that they think girls do not pick up on subtleties. They do. So if you are thinking about throwing her against a wall and fucking her hard, she will pick up on it. So no need to be overt, touchy, constantly grabbing or trying to tell her all the time.

Animal attracting that girls have is just as primal as mans. The confusion for guys is that they think women are very different than us, especially with sex. Here’s the only difference guys, girls, even sluts, have to be careful. They are the ones most vulnerable, physically and emotionally. They need to know they are safe having sex with you. Once safe, you need to also be exciting her. In my experience the more you try to excite her the safer she feels – you are creating foreplay which shows her you are interested in her pleasure. Be dominate in every sexual act. You guide her in EVERYthing. You pick up on her moans, movements her expressions of what  is good or bad – but you are the one dictating how its going down. You do not eat her out to please her – you eat her out because her pleasure is at your disposal. If you want to eat her out, do it – if you want to turn her around, bend her over your kitchen table, get her to suck your dick, do it. Once in physical contact with a woman, and alone, talking goes out the window. Do not tell her to suck your dick, just take it out. Don’t tell her you are going to put her against the wall, just do it. Girls live for their senses, and their fantasies. Hot passionate sex is something you need to create for them. If you are boring and talky, they wont appreciate sex as much, even if you’re schlong is big.

Seanzy, to answer the last part of your question. Yes she is less likely to sleep with you again. If the sexual experience with you isn’t that great, there needs to be more of a connection between you two for her to want to see you. Meaning she has to really like you. You need to provide her with more fantasy. Be dominate and aggressive - the more you do in bed, the more she’ll love it. More positions, fuck her in different places, meaning fuck her, then take her hand with out saying anything and take her to a new room. throw her over a chair, ravage her. You want her to feel completely ravaged, lying in sexual glee and orgasmic smiles on her face. If you are doing it right, she’ll be trembling afterwords.

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