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Have you ever been in a situation with a girl, where she has told you over and over how much she loves you, cherishes you, thinks you are the greatest lover, talks to you like you are her prince, her everything – with every part of your being you can feel her love for you… and then in an instant, it’s gone?
You can talk about alpha and beta all you want, but if you don’t understand the basic nature of girls than you are still at a disadvantage. There will always be one that spins you off your axis, smacks you into an eternal bliss of wonder – a girl that will make you want to toss aside every alphaness in you. And really, what is this? In this multipart series we will explore the lie of what girls are really like, and the mass illusion imparted on us from our forefathers. Romance of course, in the long term was dominated by men – written and portrayed by men who pedastalized girls, and the feminine ways – for lack of understanding – romance of course is only the mystification of what being female really is. The misunderstanding of the female of our species.
The lie that is believed by beta’s everywhere: Girls have a greater capacity of love or are capable of a deeper connection then men. It isn’t true, and in the next few parts we will go on to show you that it isn’t true. Men actually have a bigger capacity to connect on a deeper level, to connect on a broader and more intimate level. It is all biology. When you realize the truth, the freedom of the pussy awaits you.
Pets
More importantly, dogs.
I’ve dated a few girls that have owned dogs, either on their own, or in a multi-female household. I’ve dated one girl for 3 years that had a dog on her own, was her dog, was ‘trained’ by her. I also have had friends that are guys who own dogs, and who live in both a male/female household with a dog, and with a male only dominated household with a dog. The difference is one aspect of how girls do not have the capacity for a deeper connection with a living thing, nor displays the capacity for real love.
Every girl I’ve seen that has a dog, lets the dog on the couch, cuddles with it on the bed, talks to it like it’s a child or a cute cuddly little creature - just listen to a girl when talking about a dog or any animal – she’ll immediately regard it like a stuffed animal that moves. It is an object of affection only. Something that is cuddly and soft and cute. Something that makes her excited, comforted, endeared. Basically, something that makes her feel good on the surface. Something for her.
A dog that is owned by a girl acts up all the time. She’ll let it on the bed or couch when she needs to cuddle with something, she’s on her period and she just needs something snuggling her to comfort her. However, other times she’ll yell at the dog to get off the couch. What’s a dog to think?
She will allow it to do whatever it wants at all times, unless it annoys her or displeases her. She will accept any action of the dog unless she feels at any time that it’s not acting according to her feelings. Again, what’s a dog to think?
If you, as a man, say anything against the dog, how it behaves, how you don’t like it on the sofa, on the bed, how it acts up all the time, how it pisses on the floor when you fuck her – then she will take the dogs side. She will come up with some psycho-babble about how the dog is jealous or that you’re just a big meanie or you hate animals. If you decide to take control of the helpless and confused animal, she will bark at you – thus reinforcing the bad behaviour in the animal.
I feel bad for all dogs that are raised in a female household.
If you are a man you understand that a dog is a pack animal. In fact any dog handler (successful one) will acknowledge this basic biological fact. In order for a dog to be happy in a household or ‘pack’ it needs to have an alpha in the pack. If it does not have one, it will either become the alpha (the dogs that act aggressively towards everything) or a dog that acts up because it’s beta and needs an alpha to command it and keep it in its place.
A man with a dog will understand why it’s not okay for the dog to climb on the couch, why it’s not okay to cuddle with a dog on the bed. A man will not have a dog for comfort or for his outward needs. A man owns a dog for companionship, a deeper level of relationships. He doesn’t need a dog for his own selfish reasons, he has a dog to experience a deeper level of being.
A man is the alpha of this pack. He understands that the dog needs structure and a command hierarchy in order to be happy. When rules are enforced and an alpha command is upheld, the dog is the happiest. It belongs to a pack, it has a sense of purpose, it acts congruent to itself. At the same time the alpha realizes what the dog actually needs. The dog needs to be a dog, not a surrogate friend or stuffed animal. The dog needs to act like an animal, it needs a bit of freedom to explore, run, exercise and be itself, and can only do so under the command of the alpha. When the alpha commands, the dog falls in line.
When a man has a dog, he realizes that the dog has it’s own space, it’s own self discovery, that it is an animal that has it’s own personality. It is not an object or a toy, but it’s something that can have a mutual benefit from each other company. A man’s dog will protect, be loyal, and obey – a man will enrich the dogs life with order, play, food, and discovery. A man and a dog are like a hero and a sidekick. The man always knows the role of the dog, and the dog always knows its place in the pack.
A girl with a dog is like a girl with a fluffy doll that walks around and barks. It’s just another accessory for her to show off to people or make her feel special. As you can see the difference, the dog and man have mutual benefits, the girl and the dog has everything to do with the girl and the dog has to deal with confusion and lack of self confidence.
Next time you see a dog owned by a girl, you can see the drooping of the eyes in the dog, the sadness in its soul. It’s tragic.
Safety tip # 21: Trying to become alpha to your girlfriends dog will be fruitless. She will betray your alpha behaviours by confusing the dog with her female insanity. As soon as you upset her, she’ll cuddle the dog on the couch while she scoops ice cream from the container.
Girls act similar in all aspects of life. Their relationships are important to them only when it acts to benefit them in any way. Girls like cute, cuddly things, but only because it makes them feel good. When girls feel things, it rarely goes beyond the surface of how it boosts her ego or self image. Men are built with a strong ego and sense of self, exploring the deeper side of life is what we strive for during our lives.
Girls, as the childbearers are biologically programmed for self interest, it is a natural defense in order to protect her offspring, but girls also struggle with the biological urge to kill their own offspring directly after birth…
To be continued…
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You came up with all that based on what? 3 or 4 women that have dogs.
FUCK YOU!
God I would Beat the living shit out of a fuck face loser like you.
Your next post is about mothers killing there newborn childs.
YOU NEED HELP. Nothing a good fucking beating would cure.
Wow this is what the PUA community have become, guys with bullshit
blogs with a bunch of fags following them thinking mystery and rooshv(LOL)
have some secret PH.D in Psychology. I would love to see losers like you
on TV, you guys would be the most ugliest, out of place, talentless, cheapest
fuckers on tv. I’m thinking cops meets unsocial nerds meets Freaks and Geeks.
A loser like you only needs 4 words in the real world- GROW THE FUCK UP!
PS- Stop lying to yourself and everyone else, that you getting pussy.
What on earth would make you so angry you would stoop to violence? You’re imbalanced dude. Get some help with those anger management issues.
“God I would Beat the living shit out of a fuck face loser like you.”
“YOU NEED HELP.”
“GROW THE FUCK UP!”
Pot. Kettle. Black.
Also, jealousy isn’t a very attractive trait. You might work on that one son.
Yes, thuggery is such a convincing argument. Normally, an indication of a lack of any real argument and resided to the clueless, but some how you seem to have pulled it off.
Sheesh, don’t feed the troll. Anyway,. good post.
“Men are built with a strong ego and sense of self, exploring the deeper side of life is what we strive for during our lives.”
Most of the PUA-blogosphere admit being losers with women and basement dwelling computer game addicts (hell-o Gmac).
Lol @ those angry replies. wow @ your brutal truth.
Women in old countries treat dogs just like men do (mentioned in your article). My mom would of whoop my butt for having my german shepherd or my newfoundland in the house (I wouldn’t dare to try couch lol).
I am a woman and my dogs were outdoors partners and property protectors. And most of all – best friends. And thats how it was in every household I had known of.
I’m sorry, but you make massive generalisations that make you out to be a woman-hater. For example:
“I feel bad for all dogs that are raised in a female household.”
I took my dogs to the vet today and my vet specifically said to me that my dogs were a credit to me because they’re old but their a lot fitter and healthier than most dogs their age.
This blog fucking rules. I was laughing my ass of the whole time and at the same time thanking the Almighty that there really are others out there.
“Girls act similar in all aspects of life. Their relationships are important to them only when it acts to benefit them in any way.” Harsh truth indeed, Mr. donlak. It’s frightening how quickly interest in a person wanes once you don’t feel they can benefit you further.
That is, until you genuinely love the person. Then, amazingly, all thoughts of self fade to the background, and as much as you want to coo and cuddle, what matters more is to give your love the “freedom to explore, run, exercise and be itself”.
Now, asking who has a “greater capacity” for real love is demeaning for either gender. We can only ask who reaches this stage sooner (or more consistently), and a better case would be made for girls here, since they tend to give their feelings for one person more time to develop before shifting their attention to somebody else.
good article keep up the incisive observations free of that laughable concept of political correctness.the truth keeps me alive, the lies like to WAtCH me die.
Rick is a professional troll. Even Omega Virgin Revolt (loser extraordinaire) banned him.
The entire dog/girl concept was genius. A pack animal cannot be changed.
SPOT ON!!!
How does a womenizer act or feel when he gets dumped.
he knows he can get other girls, so it’s no big deal.
…oh my god what the hell is wrong with you? I spent all those paragraphs on that other article refuting your argument, but THIS? You’re basically saying that all women are ruled by their emotions and are biologically designed to be more shallow, selfish, and born with less self-esteem and that men are the rational thinkers who truly understand the social behavior behind dogs. Those last two paragraphs are a load of crap. Obviously you don’t see women as people but as this strange category of creature that is run by primitive motives.
You are the one making blanket statements about how women and men act. Saying that all men are ___ and all women are ___. The fact that you think there’s even some secret “key” to the nature of women proves it. That women are some kind of species and not just everyday people who have lives and morals and beliefs. And just from the way you handled this article, egregious statements aside, proves that you also do not respect women. I don’t know what kind of people you were dating but the old “girlfriend sides with the dog” stereotype is so hackneyed and two-dimensional I’m inclined to think that you haven’t dated at all. Or at least, nobody interesting.
oh the not all women are like that, and the you probably never dated any women argument. Yawn.
Try something better, and fucking chill woman.
Rick is gay.
Errrrrr….you say that women “are biologically programmed for self interest,” but I thought it was human nature to look out for Number One, male or female.
Furthermore, having something “boost [one's] ego or self-image” is not looking out for one’s best interest, but looking for flattery. http://www.wussu.com/poems/lctlq.htm
no. men’s biological nature is to procreate at all costs and protect his kith and kin, because everything biologically from a man is giving, females are biologically receiving.
And for whom’s interests does flattery serve if not ones own sense of self worth.
please come up with better arguments.
…as a species we are the only type of “animals” with the capacity of being rational. The nature of other living creatures is “programmed” or instinctual but not for humans. Your argument is constructed on top of the sand, it’s fragile when you add the objective element of science to it. Gender roles is a man made universal cultural phenomena–it’s the “social fabric” of our species. For example a mom would agree that it’s her role as a women to procreate and protect her child “at all cost”. Lesbians get their children thru surrogate methods or adoption–they need to procreate because they also “want” to have a family. It’s not a matter of “having to” because we’re wired to do so, but a a matter of “wanting to” because we’re rational and “decide” what “we” want to do. In short, your “opinions” are interesting observations of the social realm–but not facts.
Are you saying humans act primarily rational? Empirical evidence does not back up this claim. It is mans rational fallacy that attempts to elevate him above the animal kingdom which we are apart of, any disregard of this is living in a fantasy that tries to make sense of the senseless.
It is the inability to see how our primal instincts override a lot of our rational thoughts that contradict your argument, and give credence to game.
I let an ex have my dog after she spent six months turning him from a well trained animal into a neurotic spaz.
I feel bad for -most- dogs raised in an all female household, as well. It is pretty disgusting the way a majority of my female “friends” “raise” their dogs, but then again, they are raising their kids in the same shitty ways. Also, I fking hate those tiny annoying dogs that are clearly being bred to resemble rats more than dogs. Is it any wonder that they’re treated like a stuffed animal that happens to shit and piss at will?
“You can talk about alpha and beta all you want, but if you don’t understand the basic nature of girls than you are still at a disadvantage.”
s/b then