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Her girlfriends.
What you see is what you get. How many girls have you known that have a really good and deep friendship with another girl? Sure she might have a best friend, but she’s either someone to cry to/with when something goes wrong in her life, or someone to shop with, go to dinners/movies with, or make her look better to obtain her goal: Alpha cock, and as much of it as she can get.
We’ve all seen this before right? Cute chick rolling out with her ugly friend. They do this because for the cute girl, it makes her market value skewed when out with the little fatty. She looks remarkably better by contrast to her company. But why on earth does the fatty/ugly girl do this? She thinks her appeal goes up just by being associated with a better looking girl. Sadly it does not. It actually does worse for her. The point is, girls use one another for social status whoring, a dumping ground for all her emotional baggage, and company to shop and prattle on about the most trivial and mundane things. She will not have a deep meaningful relationship with a girl for two reasons: One, she is incapable of something like that, and two, she can’t and won’t trust other girls. Her competition for the highest value man won’t allow her.
If you want to understand girls simply look at this truth: She won’t be able to understand why you don’t want to hang out and have a few beers with her ex(s) – she thinks it should all be okay. The reason she thinks this is because she has no more tingle for the ex, so you should realize this, that he’s not a threat – and she loves having two men who have fucked her and loved her in the same room, getting along, it’s like some female version of a harem, it sends her ego into the stratosphere. But, turn it around on her, how often is you girlfriend okay with you hanging out with your exes, and what about her, you think she’ll be friends with her?
The truth is, girls are selfish little beings. They want everything for themselves, they want the best they can get, and it won’t be satiated until she has it. She may rationalize for a while that the guy she’s with really is wanted by every other girl out there, but once the tingle goes away, your deep bond with the girl will be tossed aside and forgotten about. Why? It’s in her dna. It’s self preservation - it used to be controlled, society frowned upon this behaviour – now of course, she’s free to do all the damage she wants. The littering of heartless corpses she leaves behind is a trail of her subversive behaviour in order to get what she wants.
The entitlement has never been so strong, and the modern western girl’s ruthlessness has never been so intense. She will get what she wants no matter what. And why? Because she has no deeper connection to anything. Her emotions are a tool for her to procure what she wants. It is both an aggressive monster, and a defensive helpless posture. None of it is real. A girl on top of her game uses her emotions with the cold precision of a surgeon, however most girls aren’t on top of their game, and their emotions are in complete flux. But since her emotions are only on the surface, having no real attachment to anything, it’s never anything that shopping, crying, or yapping about can’t fix.
If you are in a relationship with a girl, you will be fine as long as she wants you, tingle’s for you, appeals to her hindbrain – she is a force for pleasure and glorification of her. If she feels for an instant that you do not turn her on, or raise her status, she will turn on you, in a second, no matter how much time and energy and bonding you think you have with her. You will be shut out, instantly. Why? Because she cannot actually bond with you, not in the same way you think she can.
The lie we were all led to believe, girls are capable of a deeper love then men, that they are the sex of love, that when they get into a relationship it’s them who are in love, and she’ll love you with all her heart. It’s simply not true. She will, only so long as it suits her needs and her desires. Men who don’t understand this truth about girls are the most vulnerable. Giving yourself completely to any girl is a foolish move. Once you realize the true nature of girls do you realize why game exists. Never let a girl be the center of your world.
March on soldiers
BEST. POST. EVER…
this should be required reading for all men. funny thing is, before i got into game i had a gf and didnt realize the tingle factor. when she dumped me of course i did everything wrong and thought we could still be friends with benefits, but that only lasted a short while. when i learned about this stuff i stupidly thought she was “different” or wasnt tat way- well boy was i an idiot. i do think there are SOME women who can place love over the tingle- maybe .01% but can ya say needle in haystack?
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Excellent series. Thanks for that.
Well said buddy.
there are some things You have to mention… I’ve read
Nessahan alita, he says similar things about women, ant their darkest, selfish side, but he has a big reminder at the beginning of his book: “The things i say in this book doesn’t apply to the ‘sincere at heart’ women”.
It may sound fancy, but that’s how I think.
You will find that the girls that are sincere at heart are the ones who are following their biological makeup, meaning with a guy that fits what she needs, she’ll be sincere. Sincerity of the heart does not change a girls biology. Every girl is the same, they just display it differently.
You call this series the ‘truth about women’ but all you talk about is girls. The day the difference dawns on you is the day you’ll have to start your research over, change your name and write a new blog.
Terminology is irrelevant. You are making a claim that somehow females are different and more mature as they age? Bull. The simply hit the wall, lose their youth and attractiveness and either deal with it poorly or reasonably well – the latter settles with a man, the former are single mothers and spinsters with lotsa cats.
Spot on mate! Been there, experienced that.
Would advise ANY man to read these articles, especially if you are contemplating a relationship. All of the women I have ever been in a relationship with are exactly as stated in this article, cold, manipulative & self centered. It’s never about love, it’s ALWAYS about what use you are to them, rather than any deep connection you may believe exists. All too often we (men) are brainwashed into believing that we’re the ones who need to be more open & to show our emotions more, WRONG!!!
Why should we when they will just be used against us in the end?
Thank you for finally stating the obvious truth, wish I had read this when I was still a teenager, would not have to have learned the hard way…
Keep it up..
I am seriously amazed reading this. It’s literally like reading my own mind. I have been saying this to my friends for years trying to educate them. Some of them are finally starting to come around. It amazes me that men cant see the blatant truth that is staring them in the eyes. I cant believe that there is another guy out there that sees it exactly as I do. I was afraid that I was the only one. Keep up the good work. Maybe we can save some more.
Eh, I’m calling BS on girls not being able to have deep, meaningful relationships with other girls. It’s just a lie, either that or this observation was made based on women who have no real friends in the first place
1.Learn the differance between girls and woman.
http://poeticminds.blogspot.com/2007/05/difference-between-girl-woman.html
2.Entitlement seems to be anyone having standards that aren’t low enough for *your tastes. *I’ve noticed this a lot around the manosphere blogs.
3.Stop generalizing. If you post things that are vague it degrades the usefulness of what you post.
Men and women use each other.
The girlfriend who ‘loves’ him would abandon him tomorrow if she discovered he was broke and without prospects.
The boyfriend who ‘loves’ her abandons her tomorrow if she instantly loses her beauty.
lily if you were a man who has gone through this you would understand
So basically you’ve had your heart broken and become bitter? I wont lie yes there do exist women out there who are like this, however there exist plenty of men who are the same (look at all the celeb males who are on wives number 4 or 5 because they’re fickle and get bored easily). And yes clearly the moment the “tingle” has gone a relationship will be over, what is the point in being unhappy just to please someone else, which will only cause more pain in the long run. There are plenty of women around who aren’t as fickle as you make them out to be, and simply because you have had women who “loved” you and clearly left you doesn’t give you the right to tar all of one gender with the same brush. Amazingly women aren’t as self centred as you make them out to be and clearly you weren’t raised by a strong woman or you wouldn’t have this issue. Being a psychology student I’m gonna say there are some underlying issues here that seem to stem what you say isn’t a hatred of women but what just seems to be instead to be a complete disregard for a woman to hold any substance or depth.
Also just STOP GENERALISING “the latter settles with a man, the former are single mothers and spinsters with lotsa cats” without any evidence, which if you do have a psychology PHD or whatever you claim to have, you’d know that nothing stands in any stead unless you have any evidence, and surely if you’re posting and making a blog out of what you’re expressing you would use evidence to back you up.
Everyone is entitled to an opinion, but doesn’t mean they’re entitled to yours, stop being so dogmatic and maybe accept this is YOUR view and not the rules for men to live by; otherwise what you’re gonna get plenty of lonely men and women, procreation in broken homes and what then for the next generation?
First off, don’t go insulting my mother, she’s an incredibly strong woman, not in your feminist fist pounding masculine way, but feminine, sweet natured and caring.
I have also said there are exceptions to every rule, what I’m referring to is a basic underlying nature in women, as opposed to men, not all succumb to this, but in the modern western world there are certainly more that are like this then aren’t. ie I can count on my hand the exceptions in the 1000′s of women I’ve encountered in my travels.
So what’s your point? I generalize because the general population of women have these traits. Do I need to write a blog that dissects each and every individual that exists? it’s impossible. is it generalization when scientists take a sample size of something theyre studying? All and any gender studies article, paper, study, etc. all generalize.
It’s so funny how it can be counted on in EVERY SINGLE discussion that comes up regarding women’s faults, eventually a woman will stumble upon the discussion and loudly flail her arms about proclaiming “NAWALT!” as if no one had ever thought that there might be an exception to the general rule. Just reinforces the stereotype that women are awful with math, statistics, facts, logic, you know those kind of things as opposed to ‘feeeeelings’.
@Anon 6:49
“And yes clearly the moment the “tingle” has gone a relationship will be over, what is the point in being unhappy just to please someone else.. There are plenty of women around who aren’t as fickle as you make them out to be…”
At least we know you ARE one of the fickle ones…
“Everyone is entitled to an opinion, but doesn’t mean they’re entitled to yours, stop being so dogmatic and maybe accept this is YOUR view and not the rules for men to live by…”
Last I checked, this is his blog, so yeah, I think he accepts that this is his opinion.
As you so eloquently pointed out, you are one of those girls that will only stay in a relationship as long as the guy makes you “tingle”. All Donlak has done was point this out to any guy who doesn’t know this yet and to prepare accordingly.
Thanks for validating Truth #3.
This is really the truth, once you have a girlfriend like this, you will start to see it in women. It all starts with the tell me you love me; then the relationship will go downhill from there. That is the first sign that I have noticed with the women described above. I have started to change my thinking on women since these relationships.
just read the series. Very informative and educational. The only thing is it’s left me wary of girls now. How are you meant to go for something that could leave you worse off?
I’m commenting the whole series here:
Strangely, you use evolutionnary theory a lot when it comes to backing ideas about women selfishness, but you forget to use the same methodology when making statements about men.
You say men will work for the greater cause. The same selfishness argument can be used here, they do so because it will give them female attention. They make stronger connection with other men could be attributed to “lead the men, you’ll get the women”.
And don’t get me wrong, I am man, I have grown to have reasonable success with women (thanks to the community). I am a proponent of differientation, am against aquired gender theory. Yet
I think these articles are only spreading hatred.
Good thing I didn’t read this as at the beginning of the process when I didn’t have enough experience with women to tell the part of things.
Food for thought:
You affirm men value the feeling of deep connection with another person.
You argue that women cannot have a deep connection with anyone,.
Only conclusion is for you to become homosexual.
If you are not homosexual, one of the premise is false.
Either you do not value connection and run after women for ego, in which case you are no better than the people you are demonising.
Either you are stilll hoping that a women can give you the connection you hope for.