VK brought up an interesting jab at a portion of the manosphere, and who knows what specific blogs he’s talking about, but his basic premise is this: If you don’t show that you are actively approaching new girls and know the hot spots where the girls go, then your take on game is invalid. Now, I believe there was a specific target and I’m pretty sure it wasn’t me, but I don’t have one lay report on my site, and in the words of his post, I’m a nerd that never goes out (also never has gone out) and you shouldn’t listen to me or others that don’t have lay reports and/or video’s of their pick up experiences. There of course is 2 things wrong with this theory ( ahem).
1). I’m a writer, I write fiction and non-fiction, it’s very easy for me to make up lay reports where you would have no idea if it was true or not. I’m also a director and could easily produce fake videos of me attempting pick up. Whatever you put on the internet is assumed fake and or selective. If I see a UFO video, I don’t assume it’s real, I assume it’s fake. Now I’m not saying any of these reports and videos are fakes, but because they could be, makes them just as meaningful to the audience or not meaningful as the game theory blogs.
2.) Although game shares basic tenets that can be used by all men, how you use game is not necessarily how I can use game. For example, a friend of mine, who’s physique and character are very different than mine, I learned a lot from him, we’ve used very similar techniques to lay pussy, but I also know, as does he, that girls are attracted to us for different reasons and we are perceived differently. Therefore me copying him or vice versa is inauthentic and would and does lead to a pussy less evening and often did. So your lay reports and experience are great at honing what you are doing right, but may not work the same for a variety of men.
There was also an assumption that if you don’t know where all the girls hang out lately than you’re a nerd and don’t actually actively game is fairly humorous because there is no way to prove it – and telling your friends you should approach feels like high school games. If you told me to approach a girl, I’ve already failed at picking her up or approaching her, and you’re being a dick. I swoop when I want and where I want and don’t make a sporting event out of it, well not anymore. In my early 20′s, I sure did. Point is, just because someone doesn’t do something or tell you about it doesn’t mean they don’t do it. This is the one major contention I had with the article. Very presumptuous. Everyone can have their opinion of course, I myself criticize the manosphere at times because I think it’s healthy – just as I think VK’s post is healthy and good. We need a little challenge every now and then or we get bored.
And yes, you can get bored of banging chicks. Happens to me all the time. Just never permanently. And writing about anything, even chicks can get repetitive and thus boring. I’m not sure where that comment came from, but as much as I love women, my entire world does not revolve around them. Just my cocks world does.
The guys I read and enjoy are the ones who show me that they understand women, those are the guys that have legit experience.