Teasing is that esoteric aspect of game that really can’t be taught outside of being exposed often and frequently to someone teasing you – a social reject will view teasing as bullying, a socially functional person realizes this is an important display of affection between friends, and a sexual tension tool in seduction from both sexes.
I’ve said many times, people who grew up with siblings around their own age has a great understanding of how teasing works, they understand why you tease, that its not serious, that often it’s to subversively show affection or interest, that it’s a subliminal bonding mechanism, giving the two teasing people an insider feeling, that only you two are in on it, and this is one reason it’s so effective in seduction.
So, you can come across a girl who doesn’t know how to tease or understand it at all, they come across as cold hearted bitches, and some are, some are socially regarded (feminists), and some think that you’re so high value that you actually make them insecure that you really do think they’re dumb, annoying, not attractive etc. Experience is the only way to fight through this, but mostly in my experience seduction with now teasing just isn’t as interesting and can really limit a girls tells which make it difficult to determine her level of interest for you, it’s like driving blind – you just have to plow forward, you’ll either get an easy bang, or an angry offended womyn.
Teasing is the most powerful seduction tool you can have, but like in anything in life, it doesn’t work on everyone. It’s also risky because some girls are super flirts and just want to stay in the intense sexual tension that teasing creates, feeding her ego by bring turned on and turning you on and feeling power over you by being under her magical spell. It’s important to escalate often and soon with an assumed super flirt attention whore in order to weed out her intentions, or risk the merry-go-round of blue ball park.
Teasing is where your equilibrium in dating and socializing comes from, too much, you’re not taken seriously, too little and your bitter stick in the mud – mastering this art will get you more poon then any alpha posture or fancy suit will ever get you.
If teasing is playful, it can be good either between men or women. If teasing is hurtful, it can be an attempt to degrade or dominate.
If a woman is being sarcastic or busting balls (extreme teasing), she is a bitch and should be avoided or put in her place.
There is an issue with having siblings of the same age and the teasing ‘training’ you undergo. Siblings understand the unconditional love between each other. Nothing said will ever result in any negative consequences that reach beyond a fist-fight (younger) or some short-term tension. The result is an escalation in the intensity of the teasing that happens.
If the fun, good-natured teasing you’re after in the seduction sphere is around a 5 or a 6 then the teasing you get used to doing with a sibling after living together for 18 years is a 10. You need to teach yourself that the kinds of barbs and backhanded compliments that were standard fare between you and a sib, are incredibly likely to legitimately cause anger, hurt or insecurity in other people.
I’ve been called mean by women a lot for sarcastic quips and barbs that I thought were innocuous. I continue to train myself that my default setting is too high at the beginning of the conversation.
Enjoyed the post, but think this is a massive exaggeration: “Teasing is the most powerful seduction tool you can have”
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Teasing is a very powerful seduction tool, I was using it before I even knew I was using it. Massive Exaggeration? Not even the slightest bit.