One of the scarlett letter of a beta, a mark that any woman will detect instantly, is a man who tries to impress her. Our society and girls, mass media, schleppy and sappy rom-com’s and every peice of advice outside of the manosphere all tell men that he should work hard to impress a girl, in order to successfully court her. This is of course, a left over concept of a the pre-sexual revolution method’s of common courtship, you know, when most men actually courted women, and women enjoyed and responded to such things. It seems like it occured in ancient times at this point doesn’t it?
It’s a mistake so many men still make, because although they’ll never admit it, this is still programmed into your head from birth, and it’s a fantasy for many men, that the world still works this way, and that the ladies still respond to chivalry and displays of impressing. Beta’s and white knights base their entire outlook on life and women on this entire long since dead ideal – it’s why they rant and rave over the aloof asshole that actually scoops up all the babes. This simply does not work anymore, the old ways are dead, and the more men realize this, and the more society stops trying to teach us that it’s actually alive and well, the better we’ll all be. I long for the days where I don’t have to come across the whining and boisterous white knight tell us all that acting like a jerk isn’t how you treat women. Men treat women the same way they always have, at least the ones that get women, and the same way they always will, by acting the way that works in getting girls.
Girls are the gatekeepers of sex, they are the one’s that do the choosing, and no amount of feminism, gender neutral fundamentalism will ever change this. For if they did, the biggest female empowerement would be toothless. Because of this, and because a vast majority of men are stuck in the 50′s style of romance, chicks spend a lot of time trying to weed these types out. However impressed she is or flattered at your attempts to impress her, she will weed you out as soon as you attempt to impress her.
In this current sexual market place, and despite feminists claims, girls are desperatly trying to find a guy who will not fall under her spell and be a doormat with no spine in order to tell her where her place is. Despite feminism, girls still need to be the less powerful in the relationship. And as soon as you show that your trying to impress her, she’s got you pegged as a lap dog and a puppy, and she usually has one of these, if she’s a white girl in a trendy neighbourhood, this is garunteed.
White Knights will balk and deny these observations and usually cry out, oh you only bang sluts, or not all women are like that, mantra that is so over used and so last decade – and they’ll never accept the truth that no girl that actually respects you, or isn’t trying to use you for some reason, needs this or really wants this deep down. What they want, even the good girls, is to lose themselves in passion over a man, a man that makes her think of only one thing, being with him, in every way she can. And you don’t do this by trying to impress her, you do this by being a man, and if you aren’t a man, learn game to become one.